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{xtypo_quote}If you want to make a change in your life, use emotion to help you make that change. Emotion is a catalyst! {/xtypo_quote} I finally butted out for good when I added emotion to the mixture. For me, having my new wife tell me that she felt like she was kissing an ashtray was a big blow to the ego and sex life. I quit smoking within weeks of her quitting. That [[catalyst]] was love and love is the strongest emotion you can use. When you try and make a change, it doesn’t come easy, it usually takes people many attempts to quit smoking. The EGO(energy grounding organism) hates change. The more changes you make in your life for the better , the less control the ego has over you. When you try and make the same change over and over again , the subconscious (who is used to you not keeping your word) pays more attention to ego and doubt creeps in.  Before two hours is up you are already psychologically reaching for that vice. It is an exercise in failure, unless you add emotion and especially love.

A change made gradually works. {xtypo_quote}All it takes is fifteen minutes a day for seventeen days in order to make it a habit.{/xtypo_quote} If you want to bring more love into your marriage, tell your spouse everyday that you love them and give them a hug and a kiss. The only requirement for a change to happen  is that you love, or would love to be able to make that change. It is important that any changes you make are made over a period of time. If a beginning male runner went out and ran 5 k on the first day, his legs would be aching for days afterwards, and he probably wouldn’t want to run for the next week. If he ran 1 k and walked 4 k on the first day and every second day after that, then he would slowly be able to increase the length of the run and he will almost certainly become a runner.  

To make your word sacred you can not make judgments. {xtypo_quote}Gossiping has become the main form of communication in this world.{/xtypo_quote} People chatting casually make judgments even though they don’t intend to. In this age of information, the person that is being gossiped about never has a chance to refute the claim and gets a reputation even though he might never have done the deed. This happens more and more frequently with chat lines where an infinite number of kids can be talking on the net at any one time.  Some people compare gossip to a computer virus. Even worse there are some gossips who malign people intentionally. They spread gossip for revenge with the intentions of  destroying somebody’s reputation. The virus of gossip is deadly in your own mind. If you believe yourself fat, ugly, stupid or less than perfect, then it preys on your mind. You have to conquer your own mind. You can do that by living your own truth. That means being completely honest with everybody including yourself.

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    {xtypo_quote}We think we are responsible for everything. If you were on a team and the coach is fired, and you haven't been producing. You will feel responsible, when in actual fact there were a dozen reasons that he lost his position.{/xtypo_quote}

  

  Unless you are in direct control of a situation you can't take anything personally. Everyone filters information differently and people who are more aware of what has been happening, would react totally different to news than someone who is just new to the place. I follow all the news I can about the environment. The news that we are thinking about drilling for oil off the coast of B.C. is bad news for me, for someone who believes that our economy is more important than the environment it is great news. I take out my picket sign to protest and get called Ecofreak or something like that. I don’t take it personally, because I am probably more aware than they are about the environment and know for a fact that oil is a finite resource and would welcome investment in a more sustainable resource like [[tidal turbines]], which will generate power for decades.

    If someone tells you that you are stupid. Never take that personally. How smart would that person be if he had filled your shoes throughout your life. There is a very good chance that he has been told that he is stupid, over and over again, until he is brainwashed.  A person who tells you that you are fat or ugly is trying to brainwash you into believing just that and if you take it personally they have succeeded. {xtypo_quote}There are people who prey on people who take things personally, for there own pleasure or to be able to dominate you to the point where they feel better than you.{/xtypo_quote}

    When you take things personally and you practice deception you eventually make that deception true. I don't know how many times I've heard that a person who has faked some kind of injury for a long period of time ends up actually injured in that way. They actually have taken the intention that they are sick to heart and created it.      

    A person that is always hateful, prejudiced or negative, spreads emotional poison to other people. The problem is that people are not always at the same levels of maturity and someone who is more aware, will not take the crap in. Another person will take it all in and own it, and can be persuaded to become hateful, prejudiced or negative.

  

  Some people who are very aware fall into a similar trap, when they take in all that they have been reading as the truth. There are times when people are gullible to literature that has been sent to them by people who are on the same path. We all have inner knowledge about what is happening, if the material just doesn't feel right to you. Trust your intuition, not all the information is right for you. For example a lot of people are from the Pleidian Galaxy and would do well to follow the Pleidian agenda. To me I just don't feel Pleidian and in fact I am not. My original planet does not exist anymore. Some of the teachings of the Pleidian’s are not right for me and when other people talk about the Pleidian’s I try not to take it personally. The Pleidian’s beliefs and practices are foreign to me and just don't feel right, and that is the choice I make.

    There are many religions in this world and if I were to take personally what they say about my beliefs I would never have discovered the art of divination. I have at one time or other done palmistry, astrology, tarot, numerology, I ching and cards of destiny.  One of my friends told me that my tarot cards were directed by the devil and that I would go to hell for using them. In actual fact the origin of the Tarot cards came about due to the destruction of Alexandria in Egypt. {xtypo_quote}[[Alexandria]] was the home of the Alexandrian library and in Ancient Egypt held all the writings of the history of mankind {/xtypo_quote}and the five failed civilizations that had come before and held most of the writings that the Askashic Records in the astral plains hold.

    During guided meditations I have traveled to the [[Library at Alexandria]], which was one of the Seven wonders of the ancient world.  This library held over 400,000 scrolls of  knowledge from the beginning of man. There is no definite proof of how it was destroyed, only that is was destroyed by fire, in the conquest of Egypt by [[Julius Caesar]]. The angels gifted mankind [[Tarot]] cards as a replacement for Alexandria. So when someone tells me that Tarot is directed by anything but the divine I have a hard time not taking it personally.                    

    When you take things personally you feel offended and react to defend your beliefs and create defend your beliefs and create conflicts. You create your life and people are secondary actors in your movie. The way you see your life is something personal to you and it is no one's truth but yours. Then if you get mad you are dealing with yourself and you for a large part are dealing with fear, which is an excuse for getting mad. If there is no fear then there is now way you will hate or be jealous or sad. You will not be so quick to defend and will realize that everyone has the right to their own view point. 

   {xtypo_quote} The mind lives in more than one [[dimension]]. There are times when you have ideas that don't originate in your mind. You have the right to believe or not, the ideas we hear within our own minds. {/xtypo_quote}Thoughts create and have power if you take personally a belief that is not your own you then build upon them and your thoughts create your world. There are thousands of debates going on in your mind. True awareness happens when you can silence your mind, and the thoughts you have developed are yours not someone else.

    Some humans are addicted to suffering and if something is going too good then they will sabotage themselves. Someone can intentionally send emotional poison and if you don't take it personally you will not eat the garbage and the sender of that garbage will get frustrated and mad at you and at themselves. Sometimes you can help people examine there own beliefs by not buying into there garbage.

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      When you judge that a person has wronged you, even though you have no proof, you almost always find out you’re wrong. When you make a judgment you are taking things personally. You must practice discernment in order to maintain a non judgmental attitude. In this world you need to be discerning about people. If you have the intent to straighten out your life then you will need to be able to make some choices that will require a lot of discernment  You must be able to discern which situations, jobs, friends and even relationships you prefer. [[Co-creation]] with the [[Universal Consciousness]] would have no meaning if you could not have a choice of what you prefer to happen in this life.  

          {xtypo_quote}Just because I want to believe in the [[Christ Consciousness]] doesn’t mean that other people have to as well. In fact I would prefer that people have a multitude of beliefs. {/xtypo_quote}

           Lending money to someone is a prime example of judging a person. I lent a guy fifty dollars, hoping that I would get it back in a few days when he got paid. A day after payday I was still waiting for my money, so I started worrying that I would never regain my money. A week later I was sure the guy had stiffed me. I was angry but decided to wait till his next payday. The next payday came and still no money so I decided to confront him by going to his place. On the way out the door I decided to check the mail. There was a letter in the box from the guy whom I assumed had stiffed me, with a cheque for fifty dollars and a note thanking me and explaining that he had to go back to Calgary because his Mom had become seriously ill.  

           The anger and frustration that you feel is negative energy and it has to go somewhere. In the above example, it was directed at him, and it was directed at you. It will affect the cells in your body and money has a specific organ that it affects.

            Before you make a judgment ask yourself whether it really matters to you. Consider this next example. John, your best friends husband, is dancing with a girl in a nightclub that is not your usual haunt and you don’t see his wife anywhere around. When presented with this scene, do you make the judgment that he is stepping out on your friend? There are a hundred reasons why he’s there and only one means he is fooling around. This is why we need to get in touch with our bodies. Trust your natural intuition. If you are aware and not blinded with prejudice to what you want to see in a person then you can trust your intuition. Your intuition will let you know in your heart whether the person is honest. He may just be out with the people he works with and dancing with a co workers wife, or she may be a visiting cousin or his sister. Maybe his wife went to phone the babysitter and will be right back.
          

                 {xtypo_quote}Knowledge is power, the power of awareness.{/xtypo_quote} If on the other hand you were aware that your friend’s marriage was in trouble through talking to her, this knowledge will help you to counsel your friend and when asked for your opinion you may tell her exactly what you saw, without the prejudice of your own opinion. Let her make her own choice of what she will do with the knowledge you have just shared.     

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Make your Word Sacred

Don’t Take Anything Personally

Always Try Your Best

Don’t Make Judgments

          These four truths are your path to freedom. When you are able to follow and live these truths then you can change your life. By making your word sacred you are telling the Universe that the thoughts you have or what you say is the absolute truth and that the Universe can begin to manifest what you want. For instance if you said that you were going to begin an exercise program today and will exercise every day for the next seventeen days, which is the time needed to make anything you do a habit, then the Universe will make sure you are able to do so by clearing the way for your intention. There are some people who tell the Universe what they would like to happen at a specific time, and believe that it will be so, without doubt. On Sunday we were out camping in our tent trailer and had to pack up and leave so I told the Universe that I didn’t care if it rained tomorrow as long as there was an hour of no rain in the morning in order for me to break camp and be on my way. The next morning it was just what I ordered. The rain cooperated during my weekend off and it didn’t start raining in Colville until a minute after the parade had ended and then it poured, when we were safely in the car.

{xtypo_quote}When you make your word sacred then the Universe expects you to direct it with your intentions. {/xtypo_quote}Sometimes when you tell the Universe exactly what you want and then upon receiving it you realize it wasn’t what you wanted, the Universe starts delaying the time period for your manifestations and it takes quite a long time for your intention to become a reality. If the Universe is sure and all the steps are in place then it can happen overnight.

          When you receive your intention from the Universe and it isn’t exactly what you wanted, don’t make a judgment. You need to be clearer in what you are creating.  In anything that you manifest there are steps to the final realization. First you create it in your own mind. Create this [[manifestation]] in living color with every detail you can add, including color, accessories, whether it has four doors, CD player, GPS, or any other detail.  A lot of people will cut out a picture of the car they want to have and post it on their fridge, and then spend time each day manifesting the car.{xtypo_quote} The clearer and more concise you can be on ordering your car and the faster the car will become a reality.{/xtypo_quote}See yourself receiving the car and feel all the emotions that would be involved with getting the car. It doesn’t help the Universe to tell it you want a car. When you always try your best then even though the thing you manifested isn’t exactly what you wanted then the Universe knows that you will be able to make it your own. When you able to not take anything personally then you are able to live in the present where your power resides not in the past where the power is drained away. By not taking anything personally you are able to stay away from making judgments and the assumptions that people are deliberately trying to hurt you. By making your word sacred and trying your best you will not judge yourself as a failure, even if you do fail and you will have an easier time of never taking things personally, though sometimes you do, because although we are perfect, we have lessons to learn.

   

         {xtypo_quote}When you get to the point where you are fairly competent at using the four principals of being peaceful then you will begin changing. Slowly at first, and then the change begins in your inner world and expands to the outer reality.{/xtypo_quote} Once we begin using these principals consciously, to the point where we rarely take things personally or judge people, we begin to notice when we do and how much better we feel when we are at peace from the turmoil of judgment and taking things personally. When you do make a mistake and judge someone then you notice immediately when you do and examine the reason for the judgment.

             As your inner world begins to change you feel better, about yourself with more confidence. Your world also changes and adapts your view of life, the people you meet are kinder and you don’t run into turmoil as often as people who at odds with themselves and their world. When you do run into turmoil you feel it as negative energy, some time before it happens and you can leave. I believe that we live in a world, where what you feel inside, in your inner world is projected out into the outer world. I call it the mirror world. If it is a world of peace then you will have a peaceful loving mirror, where the people and situations that happen in your life is more of a peaceful nature and you don’t get caught up in the violence and the hate of the world.

           {xtypo_quote} The inner world and the mirror world is what you create and is more dependent on you than the [[Universal consciousness]], which helps you co-create your world. Your family is a co creation of all the mirrors and the Universal consciousness.{/xtypo_quote} A family that is centered and has peaceful mirrors works well together and can contribute to a beautiful home that you each co-create together.

             A town that creates and works together using the same principals can become a paradise and the same with a world with such a dynamic.    

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             A rich man always knows that he is rich and conducts himself in this way. When he creates his future he thinks of a life that is perfect for him. He never creates a future where he is struggling through life, with not enough resources to feed, clothe or educate his children. On the other hand a poor man dreams all about being rich and always prays that he wins big, so they can quit struggling to survive. This man is always saying to himself that someday he will be able to open his own shop, and quit working at minimum wage.

              {quotes}Creating is all about believing, you have to believe that you are worthy of receiving that new job before you will ever be employed in it. {/quotes}How many times have you heard about someone winning the lottery when they are living on skid row? I wouldn't say that it was impossible, just not very probable.

             So when you have excess energy and something you are passionate at doing for a living you need to be able to create that job. First of all you need to create in your own mind what you would like to see manifest in your life, and then ignite this creation with the power of intention. Second you need to have the absolute belief that what you are manifesting will come into your life. This is crucial to the process as there are too many people who do the first two steps and when the universe has not responded quickly enough then they despair and say I never get what I want or some other negative phrase. The Universe just doesn’t understand pessimism and will give what you want and since its nothing it comes to you immediately.  That is really it as far as manifesting your passion. If you hold true to what you want it will come to you. A person who has a lot of power to create will have their intention come true a lot quicker than someone who is sometimes running a deficit. Never give up on your dreams.